The inimitable Jared Wilson has a wonderful post up today titled “10 Things Good Pastors Say” which captures some important truths about ministry. I will note that #1 really does not make one feel like a good pastor—nor, in some cases, does #2, especially when it comes in combination with #1—but that’s one of the reasons why they’re so critical. You don’t say them, you never have the chance to become a good pastor.Here’s the list, and I’ll include his comment for #1; if you want the rest, go read the full post.
1. Please forgive me.
Better than “I’m sorry,” which can often be followed with an “if” or a “but,” these words indicate a humble heart. Bad pastors hide their faults behind the cloak of their authority, practice self-defense against all charges, and basically pretend. Good pastors know they’re sinners and admit it.
2. You’re right.
3. You’re wrong.
4. Jesus loves you.
5. I love you.
6. Me too.
7. Any time.
8. Thank you.
9. Grace is true.
10. You’re approved.
Amen.
I loved this. And it really can be applied to any Christ follower, especially in a leadership position. Thanks for posting that link, it was worth following to read the extra comments.
Yeah, I appreciate Jared's work.